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KENNETH RAYMOND SHELDEN

Kenneth Raymond Shelden was born on May 23, 1956 in Pittsburg, California to Mae (Culver) and Ray Shelden. The family lived in Shore Acres, California, and welcomed Ken’s sister Sherry the following year. In 1960, the family was rounded out with the addition of his baby sister, Pati. While Ken was in early elementary school, the family moved to Oakley, California where they lived until Ken was sixteen years old.
Ken was always a risk-taker and a dreamer; he and his best friends often ramped bicycles and minibikes, built secret hideaways, and later, took off on adventures across the country. When Ken was twelve, his dad, his role model, died of a heart attack. Because his mother had cancer, he took over the role of caretaker of the family acreage. When his beloved mother passed away when he was sixteen, his life as he knew it was shattered. Ken and his sisters moved to Iowa to live with his mother’s sister, Pattie Foltz, and her husband, Phil Foltz. Phil and Pattie welcomed the three teenagers to their family of five.
Ken graduated from Mt. Ayr Community School in Mt. Ayr, Iowa with the class of 1974. He then went to Southwestern Community College in Creston, Iowa to complete a carpentry program. In addition to construction, Ken loved to tinker with cars – especially vintage Mustangs – and was a whiz with computers. After working in Iowa for a time, Ken moved back to California where he enlisted in the U.S. Navy in 1976. He served as an electronics technician and concentrated on sonar. He was stationed on the U.S.S. Cook. After six years, he was honorably discharged.  He then worked in Sunnyvale, California in the early stages of Intel Corporation for several years and was later transferred to Albuquerque, New Mexico. After Ken left Intel, he had several different jobs working with a scientist on rocket boosters, working on wind turbines, and spending the last years of his life working in retail in Las Vegas.  In his spare time, Ken enjoyed listening to rock and roll and collected bicycles and computers and repaired them to donate to people who needed them. Ken may have been slight of frame, but his heart was huge. He would give his last dollar to someone in need.
Ken was preceded in death by his paternal grandparents, Charles and Laura Shelden of Lakeport, California; maternal grandparents Evan and Della Culver of Maloy, Iowa; aunt Pattie Foltz of Mt. Ayr, Iowa; aunt and uncle Ken and Georgette Shelden of Lakeport, California; and other aunts and uncles.
Survivors include his sisters Sherry (Larry) Adams of Mt. Ayr, Iowa and Pati (Clifford) Fried of Piedmont, California; uncle Phil Foltz of Mt. Ayr, aunt Doris Culver of Chicago, Illinois; nieces Shelden Adams of Dallas Texas; Molly Fried of Oakland, California; Tara (Zac) Grandfield of Lorimor, Iowa; and nephews Dustin (Renee)  Adams of Gardner, Illinois and Daniel Fried of Portland, Oregon;  great nieces and nephew, cousins, and friends.
No memorials are established, but family would love to hear your memories of Ken. Contact patifried@aol.com.

5 Comments

  1. VICKEY LYNN RASKOW CULVER on April 23, 2020 at 10:54 am

    Even though he was my cousin, I did not have the pleasure or honor of knowing him. I always wished I did. I was one of the youngest of the cousins. He had already moved to California. Whenever I visited Iowa, he was not there. 🙁 Maybe I met him when I was a baby?
    I am grateful to read about his life and see a picture of him. He sounds like a great man.
    My deepest condolences to Sherry and Pati, his entire family and all who loved him.

  2. VICKEY LYNN RASKOW CULVER on April 23, 2020 at 10:56 am

    Even though he was my cousin, I did not have the pleasure or honor of knowing him. I always wished I did. I was one of the youngest of the cousins. He had already moved to California. Whenever I visited Iowa, he was not there. 🙁 Maybe I met him when I was a baby?
    I am grateful to read about his life and see a picture of him. He sounds like a great man.
    My deepest condolences to Sherry and Pati, his entire family and all who loved him.

  3. Cindy French on April 23, 2020 at 11:01 am

    So sorry for your loss! I remember Kenny as a care free cool cat! He was always kind to everyone at school. It sounds like he had a very colorful and fun life! 🙏🏻

  4. David Hunt on April 23, 2020 at 12:25 pm

    I believe I only saw Kenny once after he headed out West following our graduation from High School. I believe we had just had a class reunion. Couldn’t say for sure which one but quite a ways back. He hasn’t changed at all. Still cheerful and upbeat and it was interesting to hear him tell of his role in manufacturing silicon chips, I believe for Intel at the time.

    One particular high school memory of Kenny was of him with his little 65 blue Mustang. It was a sweet car that he offered to sell me and I should have bought. It really ran for a six cylinder.

    Several of my buddies from high school either didn’t want or couldn’t get dates for the Junior prom and decided to go bar hopping in DesMoines instead. Fake IDs usually worked back then as drivers licenses didn’t have pictures yet.

    Back to Kenny’s Mustang. I was in another car with a bunch of guys and we saw Kenny get into an impromptu street race with a car of Des Moines fellows. When we all got pulled into the bar we were going to, the carload from DesMoines ( they looked rough) jumped out too and the biggest one smacked Kenny. I jumped in and shortly realized I might be outmatched. As had often happened, our pal and protector, Froggy Blades pushes me out of the way and worked the guy over good (and quickly). The other DesMoines guys backed off and got out of there.

    Froggy is gone and now Kenny. Too many others from my class to mention here but we all had a strong bond of friendship. Say hello to the rest of the gang for me, Kenny. Rest In Peace.

  5. Mary Lahiff on May 4, 2020 at 10:28 am

    My thoughts and prayers for the family. Kenny was a popular guy who will be missed.

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