MARILYN JOY SCHAFER
Marilyn Joy Schafer
Marilyn Joy (Walker) Schafer, 72 of Mount Ayr, IA passed away at Clearview Home in Mount Ayr, IA on May 10, 2020. Marilyn was born on February 16, 1948 in Quanah, TX to Benjamin and Vera Maye (Stone) Walker. She grew up in Childress, TX.
Marilyn graduated from Childress High School in 1966. She was a barrel racer in high school. She attended Harding Simmons Baptist College in Abilene, TX and was a member of the White Horse Riders with the college cowboy band. Marilyn enjoyed sharing the story of being the backdrop of a photo of John Wayne during the debut of the movie “War Wagon” in Dallas, TX.
Marilyn’s mother passed away in 1968. Her father married Dorothy Copeland in 1972 and she gained a stepbrother, Jim Copeland.
She later attended Sam Houston State in Huntsville, TX. This is where she met her husband, John Arthur Schafer. They were married January 9, 1971 in Huntsville, TX at St. Thomas Catholic Church. Their first of three sons, Ron Douglas was born on August 28, 1971. Marilyn graduated with her a secondary education degree in physical education in 1972. The following year, Bryan Lee was born on December 22, 1973.
Marilyn worked at a Girl Scout Camp in Texas where she guided and tended to the children of NASA astronauts in early 70s.
Marilyn and her family moved to Mount Ayr, IA in 1975 where she stayed at home until after Joe Don was born on June 22, 1981. She joined the staff at Mount Ayr Community School in 1986. There, she could be found assisting teachers and staff as a crossing guard, making copies, taking lunch tickets and the most memorable by many, as recess duty. Marilyn was known for her “underdog” pushes on the swings with all the kids.
Marilyn supported her children in all that they were involved in. She was the president of the Mount Ay Community Band Boosters for years and chaperoned an unending number of band trips and contests. She was also a Cub Scout leader. As a member of the First Baptist Church (now United Baptist-Presbyterian Church) in Mount Ayr, she was an example of Christ in everything she did. Marilyn participated in Sunday school, TEK and Vacation Bible School. She loved transporting the elder church members to community sings on Sunday nights in southwest Iowa. She attended as many Gaither musical shows as she was able. She had a love for gospel and country music.
Marilyn could be seen riding her bike to school everyday as the weather allowed. She loved going on long walks with her little lap dog (which she took everywhere) while John was 10 steps behind. Nothing slowed her down until she was diagnosed with Alzheimer’s.
Marilyn loved cooking, but if someone mentioned going out to eat, she’d be the first to agree and headed to the car. It was routine for Marilyn to sit down after a long day and work on some cross-stitching. She made a baby blanket for each of her five granddaughters. A gift they will all treasure forever. She also made several for the nieces and nephews and even the great nieces and nephews until the disease took her ability to stitch.
She went camping as a child every year to South Fork, CO with her family. She developed a great love for the mountains and nature that she instilled in her children and grandchildren. They continued the trips to Colorado over the years. Marilyn enjoyed fishing and would bait everyone’s hook. Marilyn always looked forward to the trips home to Texas to visit family and old friends. She never knew a stranger.
Preceding her death were her parents, stepmother and brother-in-law, Ed Schafer.
Left to cherish her memory are her husband, John Schafer, three sons, Ron of Mount Ayr, IA Bryan (Jennifer) of Altoona, IA, and Joe Don (Amanda Chalupa) of West Des Moines, IA; and Elizabeth (Loutsch) Schafer; five granddaughters, Abbey Rose, Elsie Mae and Emmalee Elizabeth Schafer of Mount Ayr, IA and Allison Grace and Hannah Rae Schafer of Altoona; two brothers, Ben (Lana) Walker of Cottage Groves, OR and Jim (Kay) Copeland, of Anton, TX; three nephews, Ben Rob (Kristin) Walker of Creswell, OR, Carl Wade (Lisa) Walker of Edmond, OK and Aaron Kyle (Jessica) Walker of Birmingham, AL; and great nieces and nephews, Lindsey Brook (Tristin) Fuller, Benjamin Cayle Walker, Cade Garrett Walker, Cody Brice Walker, Hudson Kyle Walker, Clara Tate Walker and Titus Owen Walker; in-laws, Roberta (Robert) Brown of Polk City, IA, Karla Schafer of Corning, IA and Ron (Patty) Schafer of Massena, IA and many more nieces and nephews. Armstrong Funeral Home in Mount Ayr is in charge of the arrangements.
Services are at 10:30 a.m. on Thursday, May 14, 2020 at the United Baptist Presbyterian Church in Mount Ayr, IA.
Officiating is Pastor Michael Maddy.
Musicians are Nancy Sackett and Fred Boswell.
Special song is “Lights of the City”.
Casketbearers are Abbey Schafer, Elsie Schafer, Emmalee Schafer, Allison Schafer, Hannah Schafer and MaiLynn Taylor.
At rest at the Rose Hill Cemetery in Mount Ayr, IA.
Memorials are to Clearview Home, Ringgold County Supportive Services and Ringgold County Group Home.